Where Are All The Men?

This was emailed to us and we thought others might be interested!

Six months on I have learned a lot more about Pilates, its benefits and limitations. One thing remains consistent in that it is unpopular with men. I do hear more openness towards it and a better understanding of what it is but there remains an unfortunate reluctance to participate. I started Pilates to improve my flexibility and to engage in a new practice that would drive me to challenge myself to think differently and learn new skills. I believe I have been very successful on both fronts. I’ve found some measures of flexibility which show me how much I have been able to improve my hamstring flexibility but more important than any measure is the feeling I get after working out. I come away with a feeling of lightness in the back of my legs up through my back which is wonderful and it illustrates to me I had no idea how my inflexibility felt. This is akin to the feeling of the frog that is being slowly boiled and doesn’t recognize the gradual increasing of the water temperature.

The biggest surprise for me came the morning after I started playing indoor soccer again after a gap of several years. I expected to be extremely stiff and too my surprise I felt great with no stiffness at all. Now that doesn’t mean I am in great shape, aerobically the soccer kicked my butt, big time! I had hoped I could use jump boarding to maintain my aerobic fitness but I’ve concluded I need to do more aerobic work beyond Pilates. The other disappointment is that my left knee was unable to take the strain of twisting and turning and so that’s the end of my indoor soccer season. If I had started Pilates 10 or even 20 years ago I would have learned that the biomechanics of my knee movement puts strain on the outside of my knees and I wouldn’t have worn away the meniscus on the outside of my left knee. I did not realize Pilates focuses on proper biomechanics as well as developing strength and flexibility. I can only look back at what might have been had I started Pilates earlier!

Back to my observation that men are not engaging more actively in Pilates, given my experience above, this is disappointing as learning how to use your body more effectively could be a huge benefit to young athletes and in reality all of us. I was encouraged listening to a radio interview with one of the Portland Trailblazers staff that Brandon Roy will be focusing on Pilates and Yoga this summer. Brandon wants to develop the ability to be stronger and tougher and was looking to do more weight training and instead the Trailblazers coaches have convinced him to focus on strengthening his core and improving his agility. I expect to see an even stronger and faster Brandon Roy next season.

As for myself, I’ll keep on working on my Pilates practice and keeping my female classmates amused, I hope I’m not slowing you down too much. Maybe I’ll be successful in convincing one or two male friends but if I don’t it will be their loss and I’ll continue to enjoy my all female company.

I would love to hear your views why Pilates is not more popular with men or why you enjoy it and what you have got out of it.

Andy Robbins